My need to control arises out of my opinions. My opinions originate as a result of my judgments. My judgments come out of my thinking. My thinking prior to recovery comes out of my self-centered fears.
In order to find Serenity, I have to make a decision to examine and let go of my self-centered fears in order to change the thinking which creates the judgments which lead to my opinions which bring about my constant and impossible need to control.